This is a question I regularly ask myself. I used to think of it as stagnant, but as I go through life I am realizing that it changes. Some things stay the same, obviously. But different seasons bring on different needs, just like in a garden.
So As we move into the summer months and schedules are being adjusted and the really bad habit of putting everyone else above self kicks in I am once again asking myself, “Erika, what would loving yourself look like over these next few months look like?” Followed by the request, “May you please schedule that in too.”